[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.blackle.cz\/pratelstvi-s-vyhodami-dobra-zkusenost-nebo-obycejna-z-nouze-ctnost\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.blackle.cz\/pratelstvi-s-vyhodami-dobra-zkusenost-nebo-obycejna-z-nouze-ctnost\/","headline":"P\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed s v\u00fdhodami: Dobr\u00e1 zku\u0161enost nebo oby\u010dejn\u00e1 z nouze ctnost?","name":"P\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed s v\u00fdhodami: Dobr\u00e1 zku\u0161enost nebo oby\u010dejn\u00e1 z nouze ctnost?","description":"Vztahy obecn\u011b jsou natolik komplikovan\u00fdm jevem, \u017ee je dost mo\u017en\u00e9, aby se \u010dlov\u011bk ve spleti kontakt\u016f, vazeb, souzn\u011bn\u00ed a nepochopen\u00ed\u010c\u00edst d\u00e1le","datePublished":"2019-01-04","dateModified":"2023-05-06","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.blackle.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.blackle.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/774cfd57496a9f02284489749b4229073861faca9d8a66df7d65507a77c5d31f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/774cfd57496a9f02284489749b4229073861faca9d8a66df7d65507a77c5d31f?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"blackle.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.blackle.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a335096_w2608_t1548523684.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.blackle.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a335096_w2608_t1548523684.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.blackle.cz\/pratelstvi-s-vyhodami-dobra-zkusenost-nebo-obycejna-z-nouze-ctnost\/","about":["Hobby\r"],"wordCount":533,"articleBody":"Vztahy obecn\u011b jsou natolik komplikovan\u00fdm jevem, \u017ee je dost mo\u017en\u00e9, aby se \u010dlov\u011bk ve spleti kontakt\u016f, vazeb, souzn\u011bn\u00ed a nepochopen\u00ed ztratil a \u0159ekl si, \u017ee to nejlep\u0161\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed osobn\u00edch vztahov\u00fdch peripeti\u00ed bude z\u016fstat s\u00e1m a s ni\u010d\u00edm si zbyte\u010dn\u011b ned\u011blat hlavu. Lehce se to \u0159ekne, ale h\u016f\u0159e ud\u011bl\u00e1. Co tedy d\u011blat potom, kdy n\u00e1m dojde, \u017ee nedostatek fyzick\u00e9ho kontaktu nen\u00ed tak povzn\u00e1\u0161ej\u00edc\u00ed jako samostatnost a schopnost \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed jak\u00fdchkoliv situac\u00ed bez p\u0159i\u010din\u011bn\u00ed ostatn\u00edch?
 
 P\u0159\u00edroda to tak asi cht\u011bla. V\u0161ichni m\u00e1me geneticky zak\u00f3dov\u00e1no, \u017ee hlavn\u00edm d\u016fvodem, pro\u010d se na planet\u011b Zemi nach\u00e1z\u00edme, je reprodukce \u2013 vytv\u00e1\u0159en\u00ed st\u00e1le dal\u0161\u00edch a dal\u0161\u00edch rodov\u00fdch n\u00e1sledovn\u00edk\u016f. A\u010dkoliv se m\u016f\u017ee zd\u00e1t, \u017ee v sou\u010dasn\u00e9 dob\u011b, kdy se otev\u00edraj\u00ed ve\u0161ker\u00e1 tabu a t\u00e9ma sexu \u010di genderov\u00e9 vyv\u00e1\u017eenosti je reflektov\u00e1no ka\u017ed\u00fdm okam\u017eikem, je tato nutkav\u00e1 pot\u0159eba po fyzick\u00e9m kontaktu p\u0159ekon\u00e1na, tak ka\u017ed\u00fd, kdo si n\u011bjak\u00fd \u010das zkusil \u017e\u00edt \u017eivot v celib\u00e1tu, zjistil, \u017ee to nen\u00ed tak \u00fapln\u011b pravda. Vyjmeme, pros\u00edm, z t\u00e9to teorie ve\u0161ker\u00e9 asexu\u00e1ln\u00ed men\u0161iny.
 
 Jednodu\u0161e \u0159e\u010deno je na\u0161\u00ed p\u0159irozenost\u00ed b\u00fdt sexu\u00e1ln\u011b aktivn\u00ed a pokud v\u00fdvoj do sou\u010dasn\u00e9 podoby n\u011bco nazna\u010dil, tak je to fakt, \u017ee sex nefunguje jako \u010dist\u011b pudov\u00e1 z\u00e1le\u017eitost, n\u00fdbr\u017e jako akt citov\u00e9ho splynut\u00ed dvou lid\u00ed. A pr\u00e1v\u011b zde nar\u00e1\u017e\u00edme na nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m dosud nezm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9ho p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed s v\u00fdhodami. Na prvn\u00ed pohled tento n\u00e1pad zn\u00ed velmi dob\u0159e a l\u00e1kav\u011b. Odd\u00e1v\u00e1te se milostn\u00fdm hr\u00e1tk\u00e1m, nejste nuceni se na nikoho trvale v\u00e1zat, uspokoj\u00edte sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby, a z\u00e1rove\u0148 st\u00e1le z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1te nez\u00e1visl\u00ed. Nav\u00edc pokud m\u00e1te ji\u017e neuti\u0161itelnou touhu, v\u00e1\u0161 prot\u011bj\u0161ek je p\u0159ipraven t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 v\u017edy a okam\u017eit\u011b.  Kr\u00e1sn\u00e9. Kr\u00e1sn\u00e9, ale dost pom\u00edjiv\u00e9.
 
 S ka\u017edou takovou zku\u0161enost\u00ed se toti\u017e vyjma t\u011blesn\u00e9ho uspokojen\u00ed st\u00e1v\u00e1me sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed jak\u00e9si hloup\u00e9 hry na to, kdo se prvn\u00ed poru\u0161\u00ed tuto \u010dist\u011b sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed dohodu dvou p\u0159\u00e1tel, kdo se prvn\u00ed zamiluje, kdo za\u010dne informace z tohoto intimn\u00edho svazku tahat i do komunikace, kter\u00e1 tomu naprosto nen\u00ed ur\u010dena. Takto to cel\u00e9 zn\u00ed jako vymy\u0161len\u00fd p\u0159\u00edb\u011bh z hollywoodsk\u00e9ho romantick\u00e9ho filmu, ale je nutn\u00e9 si p\u0159ipustit, \u017ee tyto situace se skute\u010dn\u011b d\u011bj\u00ed. To nejhor\u0161\u00ed v\u0161ak p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed v p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, kdy se pro n\u00e1s kv\u016fli p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed s v\u00fdhodami stane sex pouze fyzickou aktivitou a vytrat\u00ed se z n\u011bj jak\u00e1koliv romantika a cit. A co si budeme pov\u00eddat, pr\u00e1v\u011b takto fyzicky proc\u00edt\u011bn\u00e1 l\u00e1ska je to hlavn\u00ed, co n\u00e1s p\u0159ece odd\u011bluje od zv\u00ed\u0159at. Nebo u\u017e je to taky jen p\u0159e\u017eitek?
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